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= Feast House Etiquette =
''INITIATION DRAFT — Ayaawx Law page describing the expected conduct, behaviour, and responsibilities within a feast house or gathering space.''

== Core Principle ==
Feast House Etiquette is the living expression of [[laxha]] (respect) and [[wila waal]] (proper conduct).
How a person behaves inside a feast reflects:
* their [[łoomsk]] (honour),
* the honour of their [[wilp]],
* the teachings of their matriarchs ([[sigyidm hana̱'a̱]]),
* and their understanding of ayaawx.

Etiquette is not decoration —
it is **lawful behaviour** that protects the dignity of the feast.

== Entering the Feast Hall ==
When entering a feast:
* move respectfully,
* keep your voice low,
* acknowledge elders with a nod or quiet greeting,
* do not run or rush,
* remove hats unless medically required,
* turn off or silence phones,
* avoid drawing attention to yourself.

Entering a feast is entering a **lawful space**.

== Seating Protocol ==
Seating reflects:
* rank,
* lineage,
* hosting responsibilities,
* and feast structure.

General guidelines:
* the hosting [[wilp]] sits together,
* visiting Houses sit in designated areas,
* elders sit near the front or central positions,
* youth sit where they can learn without disrupting,
* speakers ([[sgigithanauk]]) sit where they can be heard clearly.

Never take a seat reserved for another House or elder.

== Speaking Etiquette ==
Inside the feast:
* do not interrupt speakers,
* do not whisper loudly,
* do not speak over witnesses,
* do not correct someone publicly unless you hold the lawful authority to do so.

Speech follows strict order:
1. The hosting House
2. Speakers and witnesses
3. Visiting Houses (when invited)
4. Anyone else only with permission

Unauthorized speaking disrupts ayaawx.

== Movement During the Feast ==
Movement should be:
* slow,
* quiet,
* purposeful.

Do not:
* wander,
* pace,
* walk behind speakers,
* block dancers or carriers,
* distract witnesses.

Youth should sit still unless asked to help.

== Behaviour During Naxnok and Dances ==
When [[naxnok]] or dances begin:
* remain silent,
* do not film unless permission is given,
* do not walk in front of performers,
* do not clap unless the family has requested it,
* focus your attention on the performance — it is a form of adaawx.

These are **living histories**, not entertainment.

== Responsibilities of Youth ==
Youth are expected to:
* help serve food,
* assist elders,
* carry out tasks given by matriarchs,
* sit quietly when not helping,
* observe order and structure,
* learn roles for future feasts.

Youth behaviour reflects the future of their House.

== Responsibilities of Adults ==
Adults must:
* model conduct for youth,
* respect all Houses present,
* avoid conflicts or tension inside the hall,
* listen carefully during speeches,
* support the matriarchs and hosts,
* avoid alcohol or intoxication before entering.

Improper adult behaviour damages the honour of the House.

== Responsibilities of Elders ==
Elders:
* guide behaviour through example,
* correct quietly when needed,
* support House leaders,
* ensure youth understand what is happening,
* oversee distribution ([[Gwiikxw]]),
* and help keep the feast lawful.

Their presence stabilizes the hall.

== Gift Distribution Etiquette ==
During [[Gwiikxw]]:
* remain seated until called,
* accept gifts with gratitude,
* do not complain about the amount or type,
* do not interrupt the speaker,
* treat the moment with dignity.

Distribution is a legal acknowledgment, not a financial transaction.

== Eating Etiquette ==
While food is served:
* wait until your row or table is invited,
* do not rush or cut ahead,
* assist elders and children,
* keep noise low,
* remain seated while others are served.

Food in a feast is part of the lawful process, not casual dining.

== Leaving the Feast Hall ==
When leaving:
* thank the hosts if appropriate,
* avoid loud or disruptive behaviour outside,
* do not speak poorly about the feast in public immediately afterward,
* give space for families to clean, close, and settle the hall.

Departing respectfully protects the honour of the evening.

== When Etiquette is Broken ==
If behaviour violates ayaawx:
* correction ([[ha’lidzap]]) may be given,
* the family or individual may be spoken to quietly,
* a Soup Feast may be needed to restore balance.

Correction is not punishment —
it restores dignity and prevents future harm.

== Notes ==
INITIATION DRAFT — Will expand with House-specific traditions, regional variants, and teachings from matriarchs and feast leaders.

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Amusterer: initiation